What does it mean that you get angry because you cant handle people as well as you thought you could?

I understand where you are coming from because I have had a similar experience and have suffered from anger when I feel that I am being belittled. There are times when I can control my cool and then those other times when I end up being called a little immature girl for reacting the way I did. The best advice I can give you is to try emotional intelligence. There are many books out there on the subject that will help you cope and give you insights when you are in those type of situations. If you want to talk you can email me marlybo2002@yahoo.com.